Rabbi Koppell’s Writings

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Leo Saul Koppell- 3/30/33-4/24/2016

By Rabbi Bonnie Koppell | 04/26/2016 | Comments Off on Leo Saul Koppell- 3/30/33-4/24/2016

Simcha Lev ben Tzvi v’Channah   Leo Saul Koppell- 174. Born in Brooklyn, NY- 3/30/33, the eldest of Harold and Jessie’s two boys. When I was little, for the longest time I thought that his middle name was “Salt.” Leo survived his brother Eddie by almost 10 years, and he…

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On Retiring From the Army

By Rabbi Bonnie Koppell | 04/07/2016 | Comments Off on On Retiring From the Army

When I first raised my hand 37 years ago and swore to defend the Constitution of the United States I had no idea what I was doing. I grew up in Brooklyn, NY, near what was then the US Army Chaplain School at Fort Hamilton, NY. Knowing that I wanted…

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Ki Tissa- What Energy Are We Giving to Our Communities?

By Rabbi Bonnie Koppell | 02/29/2016 | Comments Off on Ki Tissa- What Energy Are We Giving to Our Communities?

Would you like to save your soul? Not a question we Jews normally ask, yet, this week’s parsha, Ki Tissa, comes to teach us precisely that- how to save our souls. The answer can be summarized in one word- giving. As the portion opens, Moses is taking a census of…

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Mishpatim- On Parents and Children

By Rabbi Bonnie Koppell | 02/15/2016 | Comments Off on Mishpatim- On Parents and Children

We take this incredible love for granted – which is what makes it so profoundly painful when children grow up and the bond between parents and children is severed. How often, way too often, I hear this terrible tale of parents and children who no longer speak to each other.…

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Thanksgiving 2015

By Rabbi Bonnie Koppell | 11/25/2015 | Comments Off on Thanksgiving 2015

Instead of complaining about the sink of dirty dishes, we should be thankful that we have plenty of food to eat. Instead of complaining about the piles of laundry that need to be washed, folded and put away, we should be thankful that we have clothing to wear. Instead of…

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Sukkot- Embracing Imperfection

By Rabbi Bonnie Koppell | 09/26/2015 | Comments Off on Sukkot- Embracing Imperfection

I hate not being perfect. When I discover a typo in an email that I’ve sent, it’s painful. If I forget to call someone, I beat myself up. I know- it’s an impossible standard. And it’s not so healthy, because I sometimes, then, kind of, sort of, also expect other…

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Cast Out. . .

By Rabbi Bonnie Koppell | 09/24/2015 | Comments Off on Cast Out. . .

Rosh HaShanah begins, joyously and appropriately, with the story of the birth of Isaac. A beautiful metaphor for all the possibilities of a new year. And yet, something is drastically wrong. If we look just below the surface, there is a sub-text of bullying and exclusion. First, there is this…

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High Holiday Reflections- 5776

By Rabbi Bonnie Koppell | 09/24/2015 | Comments Off on High Holiday Reflections- 5776

Erev Rosh HaShanah- The story of the Jewish people begins with God saying to Abraham, “Lech Lecha – Go forth.” Abraham and Sarah pack up their life and their family and go, having no idea where their journey will lead them. Beginnings are exciting and frightening, especially when we don’t…

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A Tribute to David at Yizkor

By Rabbi Bonnie Koppell | 09/24/2015 | Comments Off on A Tribute to David at Yizkor

This is my first yizkor. I graduated from rabbinical school 34 years ago, and have led yizkor services multiple times every year since then. Yet, and, this is my first yizkor. It has always been a point of personal pride to smugly excuse myself, at least symbolically, from the yizkor…

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The Whole World is a Fragile Sukkah- Hashkivenu

By Rabbi Bonnie Koppell | 09/13/2015 | Comments Off on The Whole World is a Fragile Sukkah- Hashkivenu

Yes, Erev Rosh HaShanah begins on Sunday, yet, as we turn to the Hashkivenu, I’m thinking about Sukkot. “Ufros alenu sukkat shlomecha- spread over us a sukkah of peace.” When we sit in our Sukkot in a few short weeks, we are reminded of the fragility of our homes and…