Rabbi Koppell’s Writings

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Kaddish D’Rabbanan- Honoring Our Teachers

By Rabbi Bonnie Koppell | 09/09/2013 | Comments Off on Kaddish D’Rabbanan- Honoring Our Teachers

After we study a text, it is customary to say the Kaddish D’Rabbanan- the Rabbi’s or Teacher’s kaddish- probably the least known among the variations on the kaddish prayer.  It is a special favorite because it combines two of Judaism’s highest values- learning and gratitude.  In the Kaddish D’Rabbanan, we…

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Love Means Having to Say You’re Sorry

By Rabbi Bonnie Koppell | 09/01/2013 | Comments Off on Love Means Having to Say You’re Sorry

One of the more memorably ridiculous lines in literature comes from a work that was popular in my childhood- Love Story– in which the author famously wrote, “Love means never having to say you’re sorry.”  Raise your hand if you agree that you can successfully sustain long-term, loving relationships without…

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Entering the Yamim Noraim

By Rabbi Bonnie Koppell | 09/01/2013 | Comments Off on Entering the Yamim Noraim

Forgiveness means so many different things to each of us. However we understand forgiveness, however we approach forgiveness, it is never easy. In fact, for most of us it is the greatest spiritual struggle of our lives. Sue Monk Kidd expressed it this way- “If God said in plain language,…

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Military/Synagogue Strategic Planning

By Rabbi Bonnie Koppell | 07/24/2013 | Comments Off on Military/Synagogue Strategic Planning

strategy temple chai 1 nov[1] An analysis of how military strategic planning can be applied to the religious community.    

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A Tribute to Daniel Somers

By Rabbi Bonnie Koppell | 07/07/2013 | Comments Off on A Tribute to Daniel Somers

Pinchas, the son of Elazar, was a religious zealot. The book of Numbers, chapter 25 verses 1-9, describes his act of vigilante justice, thrusting a spear through an Israelite man and a Midianite woman, thus staying the plague which had afflicted the Israelites and killed 24,000 people. Living as we…

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Reflections on the Fourth of July

By Rabbi Bonnie Koppell | 07/07/2013 | Comments Off on Reflections on the Fourth of July

This year we celebrate the 150th anniversary of the battle at Gettysburgh, PA. In the Gettysburg address, President Abraham Lincoln described the United States of America as “conceived in liberty.” Birth is a bloody and painful process under the best of circumstances, and that conception doesn’t always go according to…

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Shabbat and Dilbert

By Rabbi Bonnie Koppell | 01/01/2013 | Comments Off on Shabbat and Dilbert

Does the number 5:14 mean anything to you? That is the precise time, according to the calendar, that Shabbat candles were to have been lit tonight- at least in Mesa- I didn’t check the Temple Chai zip code. I grew up in a Conservative Jewish household. That meant that my…

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Tohar ha-Neshek/Purity of Arms

By Rabbi Bonnie Koppell | 11/23/2012 | Comments Off on Tohar ha-Neshek/Purity of Arms

War is an ugly but tragically necessary aspect of human interaction. Within the first few chapters of Genesis, we encounter war between Abraham and the 5 kings. The Torah works to militate against the dehumanizing aspects of warfare by prescribing constraints on the behavior of combatants, and creating a ritual…

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Thanksgiving

By Rabbi Bonnie Koppell | 11/17/2012 | Comments Off on Thanksgiving

For the past month or two, Psalm 92, the psalm for Shabbat, somehow slipped out of our Kabbalat Shabbat davvening. I asked around about this and discovered that it was not out of some great strategic initiative, it had kind of just happened- please turn from page ____ to page…

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Army Values and Jewish Values- Yom Kippur 5773

By Rabbi Bonnie Koppell | 09/28/2012 | Comments Off on Army Values and Jewish Values- Yom Kippur 5773

One hundred fifty years ago, almost to the day, the first Rabbi was commissioned as a chaplain in the United States Army.  Last year, a memorial was dedicated at Arlington National Cemetery to the 13 Jewish chaplains who have died during active duty service to our beloved country.  Their sacrifice…