Rabbi Koppell’s Writings

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“I’m Begging You”- Vaetchanan

By Rabbi Bonnie Koppell | 07/24/2021 | Comments Off on “I’m Begging You”- Vaetchanan

The name of this week’s Torah portion is “Vaetchanan.”  The word can be translated as- “I begged, I pleaded, I entreated.”  It is a poignant and heartbreaking moment.  Think about the times in your life when you wanted something so desperately that you begged, pleaded, or entreated someone for them? …

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Anger is One Letter Short of Danger- a perspective on Matot/Masey

By Rabbi Bonnie Koppell | 07/11/2021 | Comments Off on Anger is One Letter Short of Danger- a perspective on Matot/Masey

There is a lot of anger in this week’s Torah portion.  Beginning with verbal commitments made by women which can be nullified by the men in their lives, to revenge taken against the Midianites, to the tribes that want to stay on the east side of the Jordan.  Protection is…

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Shabbat Nachamu Now!

By Rabbi Bonnie Koppell | 06/20/2021 | Comments Off on Shabbat Nachamu Now!

Shabbat Nachamu, the Shabbat of Comfort.  It’s an actual date ON the Jewish calendar.  It occurs every summer, in the 7 weeks of comfort and consolation following Tisha B’Av.  This year those 7 weeks begin on July 23, which is the OFFICIAL Shabbat Nachamu. This  year I have a proposal. …

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Korach, The National Week of Conversation, Antisemitism, and Us

By Rabbi Bonnie Koppell | 06/13/2021 | Comments Off on Korach, The National Week of Conversation, Antisemitism, and Us

This week’s parsha is named for Korach, who, in my humble opinion is one of the people in the Torah who gets a bad rap.  What did Korach do that was so terrible?  He challenged Moses’ authority, wondering who put Moses in charge and why leadership is not shared more…

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Parashat Shemini: Do You Need to Apologize? Be Sure to Listen First

By Rabbi Bonnie Koppell | 04/09/2021 | Comments Off on Parashat Shemini: Do You Need to Apologize? Be Sure to Listen First

JCC Association | April 8, 2021 How hard, or easy, is it for you to say, “I was wrong, I apologize, please forgive me.” For me, and for many of us, it is impossibly challenging to get those words out of our mouths. We rationalize, we defend, we obfuscate, we…

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The Pandemic and the Seder- 2021

By Rabbi Bonnie Koppell | 04/04/2021 | Comments Off on The Pandemic and the Seder- 2021

A year ago when we celebrated Pesach, I don’t think we realized that we were actually ENTERING Egypt, Mitzrayim, the narrow place, the place of confinement.   A year later, we read the Haggadah through an entirely new lens.  The brilliance of our tradition and rituals is that the depth of…

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Beetle Bailey and Ki Tissa

By Rabbi Bonnie Koppell | 03/11/2021 | Comments Off on Beetle Bailey and Ki Tissa

Here are a couple of interesting numbers: 14, 981 17, 896 23, 746 Any idea what they represent?  These are the number of days that each of us has been alive- Cantor Wolman, the youngest- 14,981.  Rabbi Mari- 17,896, and I, who just celebrated my 65th birthday, 23, 746.  By…

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It’s a 3-Day Purim!

By Rabbi Bonnie Koppell | 02/28/2021 | Comments Off on It’s a 3-Day Purim!

It’s still Purim!  Shushan Purim is a thing every year.  Even in the time of Mordecai and Esther, Purim was celebrated on a different day in Shushan than in other cities, per chapter 9 of the Megillah.  It took a little longer in Shushan for the violence to dissipate and…

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Esther, Vashti, and Women Leaders

By Rabbi Bonnie Koppell | 02/28/2021 | Comments Off on Esther, Vashti, and Women Leaders

We can still talk about Purim, right?  Purim may have officially  ended when we lit candles and entered into Shabbat.  However, in some parts of the world, ancient walled cities- like Jerusalem- it’s STILL Purim.  It’s actually called “Shushan Purim” and it commemorates the tragic loss of life that the…

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Alex Trebek and Parshat Bo

By Rabbi Bonnie Koppell | 01/23/2021 | Comments Off on Alex Trebek and Parshat Bo

You may have missed a sad, recent event in the news.  Overshadowed by current events, the death of Alex Trebek, long time host of “Jeopardy,” was barely noticed.  No, I’m not a serious fan of the show, but I am a fan of questioning, and Alex Trebek was the man…