Rabbi Koppell’s Writings

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Remember Me Like This

By Rabbi Bonnie Koppell | 11/27/2019 | Comments Off on Remember Me Like This

We could all die tomorrow, or, in fact tonight. The reality is that we don’t know and so it is easy to avoid thinking about. On this holiest of nights, we peel back the façade and take a peek at our lives as they will appear in the rear-view mirror.…

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Neuroscience and Happiness

By Rabbi Bonnie Koppell | 10/08/2019 | Comments Off on Neuroscience and Happiness

Perhaps you have had an MRI to aid in the diagnosis and treatment of a serious medical issue? Through the miracle of this technology, neuroscientists have been able to analyze the patterns in our brain in order to understand what makes us happy. 1. Looking to increase the happiness quotient…

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The High Holidays and Mayonnaise

By Rabbi Bonnie Koppell | 10/03/2019 | Comments Off on The High Holidays and Mayonnaise

I’ve been thinking about mayonnaise. We tried one of those meal in a box services that have become so popular, and the ingredients included a tiny little container with two tablespoons of mayonnaise. I guess it’s too much trouble to drive to the store and buy your own mayonnaise and…

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Jonah and the Cactus: Evanescence

By Rabbi Bonnie Koppell | 09/15/2019 | Comments Off on Jonah and the Cactus: Evanescence

The book of Jonah, which we read on Yom Kippur, ends on an absurd note. Jonah storms out of the city to sulk. He had been sent to call the people to repent, and they did. God had compassion on them and, seeing their will to do better, decided not…

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The Rabbi’s Struggle With Faith

By Rabbi Bonnie Koppell | 07/24/2019 | Comments Off on The Rabbi’s Struggle With Faith

This is probably an odd confession for a rabbi- I struggle with a sense of faith. As someone who is too often in the human tragedy business, I just can’t reconcile so much suffering as “God’s will.” I am not comforted by a thought that “Everything happens for a reason,”…

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B’Har and Social Responsibility

By Rabbi Bonnie Koppell | 05/26/2019 | Comments Off on B’Har and Social Responsibility

Parshat B’har speaks of fundamental issues of justice and equality. “And you shall proclaim liberty to all the inhabitants of the land, to all who dwell upon her,” the verse which adorns the Liberty Bell, has its source in this chapter. The text is concerned with distribution of resources, stressing…

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KonMari Your Passover

By Rabbi Bonnie Koppell | 03/31/2019 | Comments Off on KonMari Your Passover

Spring cleaning has always been a Jewish thing. Except we call it Passover cleaning. It’s a good thing, at least occasionally, to take the cushions off the couch and vacuum up the crumbs, wipe off the shelves in the pantry, and empty out our pockets. As is the case with…

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Purim and Anti-Semitism

By Rabbi Bonnie Koppell | 03/26/2019 | Comments Off on Purim and Anti-Semitism

This year at Purim, one verse of the Megillah especially resonated with me. In Chapter Three, Verse 8, Haman seeks permission from Achashverosh to destroy the Jewish people, denouncing us with these words, “There is a certain people, scattered and dispersed among the peoples in all of the provinces of…

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Tetzaveh and Interrupting

By Rabbi Bonnie Koppell | 02/18/2019 | Comments Off on Tetzaveh and Interrupting

Is it kosher to interrupt someone? According to an article by Kira Bindrim, “There are times when it’s okay to interrupt someone. If they have food on their face? If their dress is tucked into their tights. If a tsunami is coming up behind them. And there are times when…

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Vayechi and the Meaning of Life

By Rabbi Bonnie Koppell | 01/09/2019 | Comments Off on Vayechi and the Meaning of Life

We come to the final parsha in the book of Genesis- Vayechi- And he lived, referring to the patriarch Jacob. It is ironic that there are two Torah portions that have the word “chai”- meaning life- in their names.  The other one is Chayai Sarah, The life of Sarah.  Chayai…